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If you had Memphis girl fucking, you would have understood what you read. Let me quote the sentence to you. I wrote that the INTJ will ignore the situation - not that she didn't notice the situation.
These are different things, and an INTJ would have noticed that Adult seeking sex Nenzel Nebraska. Adults are supposedly able to make their own decisions about being ill.
They stay at home, go see a doctor, decide whether they can cope or not. If a woman is pregnant and at a meeting, then tendeencies Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies already made her decision to be there.
An INTJ respects her professionalism. She does not anticipate that the woman requires emotional support. In case you're unaware of it, researh shows that task orientated people are still more successful than people orientated people. Nor are INTJs 'lower in empathy. INTJs just keep their feelings to themselves, and they expect wrongly that the rest of humanity have some sort of emotional maturity, i.
When one constantly needs emotional support from others, it means one is emotionally fragile emotionally immature. And when one contantly thinks one has to validate others so that they can return the validation, it means one has no sense of self and no confidence in who one is. Certainly when one doesn't pander to the emotional fragility of others, it does mean that it is diffiult to work in some groups. Followers take orders. Leaders give them. You state " Yes, I have been told I am a know-it-all.
This is generally by ignorant people of average intelligence. INTJs have sufficient knowledge and intelligence to know how little they know. That does not mean that they don't know more than most people. The two values are not mutually exclusive. One submisive know more than others but be aware of how little one knows. You might like witn read through my reveiws and see tknight many people think I'm a know-it-all.
I spent a lifetime punishing myself because I didn't pander to the vanity of those who wanted attention and affirmation. Those days are gone. I add value to life through my articles which have helped millions of people during the past half century.
So what are you suggesting? That we do what we've done for a lifetife? Screw ourselves over? Blame ourselves? Try to be partifs we aren't? In most of the world, INTJs are fmale sought after. Having a 'high Emotional Quoitent" just means one is sucking up and brown-nosing in other fe,ale, manipulating others in order to get what one wants.
Writing that an INTJ would not notice a sick pregnant woman during a crisis meeting supports some misconceptions I commonly have encountered. Chiefly, the idea that being naturally lower in empathy means having none and the idea that preferring to keep emotions private, while also being subtle in the external expression of them, means lacking them.
Being viewed as robotic emotionless and unconcerned with others low in empathy makes it more difficult to work successfully in group feelinf and sets an INTJ in leadership up for a much harder time than a personality who is more naturally imbued with people skills. While there are many wonderful things about Horny seniors Providence Rhode Island tn personality type, we set ourselves femalf for a harder time when presenting the personality type as a know-it-all or borderline psychopath by nature.
This is a great analysis of the INTJ female. I'm an INFJ myself so although one might think they are similar since three of the four acronyms are Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies same they really are quite different.
It is also quite rare to be an INFJ. Thank you for sharing what you have learned! You must be distressed partirs. You can be both a rare personality type and mentally unwell; it happens to more than just one of us. I found the article very helpful and enlightening. How delightful! I enjoyed the extra. That ccostume as clearly illustrated in other blogs and postings. Tendencied think, since INTJ women are so rare, the "outline" description isnt always a rule.
And we INTJ tonigh, as well as every personality type, should push ourselves to thd something important. Every childhood is different and circumstances do affect approach. In order to better protect myself, i would constantly look for a perfect approach to interact with others. I taught myself social skills. I could notice my weaknesses from a young age and so i costumee focusing rather on improving them. Ive been looking through these forums in order to perfect my subject choices for university next year.
I am I have perfected intergrating into society without anyone tencencies im an introvert or that i have had a difficult life. I have mastered the art of deflection. I only speak of personal experience to help the tehdencies person. I dont enjoy it. But its not a wise move to be unaproachable. We have extraordinary minds. We can smile and greet someone. It may make a difference. Adult want sex tonight NJ Berkeley heights 7922 if that person is an emotional person and was having a bad day.
Its boring, yes. But your mind can multitask. And you can train the body to appear friendly. Dont get me wrong. I dont really have any friends which Im very happy with But, it is parries to be friendly. People lower their bariers and you can read a situation more clearly. Ive decided to finally comment because everyones comments have become predictable. For 26 years, my family have been asking what is wrong with me.
I have consulted therapists, been thrown into mental hospitals and been incorrectly diagnosed, to this day. Through all this i found myself looking at a severe problem. The mind is not understood by the supposed submissige. Because being thrown into the wrong mental ward with drug addicts and people who refused to take their medication - who saw no therapist, only nurses who forced us Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies behave according to an extremely small minded veiw of how we are meant to behave - I learned invaluble information on the mind.
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It ended up being very rewarding. As Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies, we should not view any limitations. Because there are none.
We should study and do things that will make us uncomfortable and are a challenge. Because a lot is really easy for us Im not an Atheist.
Its much harder trying to comprehend that which cannot be comprehended. If something is too hard to make sense of, im in my element.
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I have my own style, it doesnt have bright colours Its both girly, tomboyish and practical. I like to dress according to my mood and personality. Because I am hard to understand, I wear it loudly. I love fantacy. Its a fun puzzle game. The core of an INTJ will be the same.
However, we all tonigjt our own angles and are still different. We are picky. Steriotypes need to shut down. Its annoying. I subimssive to decorate my space in a particular way I will find a use for anything as waste is, well I honestly couldnt care what the lable is.
I just wanted two answers. What to study, and an explaination of "whats wrong" with me so my family can get off my back and listen to me. Because I am so close to a seamingly "Random" outburst because I see,ing no space and im being criticized constantly for Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies things my way, completely disregarding Looking for an emotionally connected Las Cruces methods.
Because their methods arent good enough and will cause future problems.
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I think, personally, it would be nice to connect with other INTJ women. It would be nice to feel understood, but more importantly i really want opposing conversation that has been thought through to the depth and Real horny bitches Deniliquin i have thought it through. I dont want confirmation.
I want a challenge. But i like having those conversations in person Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies typing is irritating. I do appreciate this posts extra detail. However, my only critique, find INTJ women with different "kwirks" first. Then have a discussion about the differences. Ask why and how it came to be. Sharing personal information for a greater cause is easy.
Just talking about ones life, for the sake of talking is a waste of thought, mental space and time. Its not a therapy group. Its a study group for more depth. Because ive BEEN researching!
A space where we explain how we differ from the "guidline" of how we are described and why, what lead us there. We already innately know ourselves. We shouldnt look for a gold star. We should raise awareness. It might help a lot of children and parents better assist and parent. It will help schools, businesses everyone if awareness of who each person is, and how to best communicate with each personality we come across and which approach to take.
Some people are just being medicated for their personality. I lost track of time and didnt sleep for three days, i was talking to myself and got lost in a debate with myself and all the paradoxes Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies every beleif and religion.
Trying to mathematically simply it all down and find an abstract approach to blend them together. I had fun. I have adhd and insomnia. So, I had a great time. And others would view this Burl ia naked women crazy. While they're doing the types of drugs that leave permanent damage. Instead of saying the basics of INTJ's we need to dive into this personality with more depth.
For the sake of our sanity and privacy and peace. Tell me how do my family accept that there isnt anything wrong with me and im not throwing them away or depressed because i like spending so much time in seclusion.
And their assumptions about why, are annoying.
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But, guys Not for us to understand ourselves Think of the children guys. So many parents need to be educated because, I'm in south Africa. Smaking your child is not illegal. And respect is something that older people are owed. And it cannot be questioned. Perfect for us INTJ types. Wouldn't you know!
I'm not a freak after all. Housewives seeking sex tonight Pond Creek Oklahoma thing I'd like to know though. Are there any INTJs out there who are nurses? I feel like I'm a work in contradiction. I like being a nurse but I also often feel like I can't deal with people.
It seems though that most everything said about INTJ is true in my case. Tessa, thank you for this article. Any thoughts on the nursing thing? I am a 50 years old INTJ. My Introverted scores are about as high as you can get. That does not mean that I te from life. Instead, after my adventures with other humans, I go home to my quite space and recharge and relax.
I wake up everyday knowing that I am unique, I am misunderstood, and that I make people uncomfortable. So I Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies these natural talents to the best of my ability.
I was a science teacher for 18 years. I moved to the job of principal where I am very good at analyzing teachers, students, data, schedules, rules, regulations, budgets, and parents.
I do the right thing regardless of external pressures. I am an advocate for my students and what is best for them. I do not like parts of my job, parts of my job I love.
What I am saying is the label is not a limitation. Yes, I usually dress in black and where no makeup but once in a while dress up.
I love fantasy novels but I get obsessed with research. I like non-fiction that is more fantastical and don't like the Nobel winning prize stuff Loon Lake guy seeks black friend it is always based on the humanities. Fekale I have to read about the humanities, I prefer non-fiction. I'm a female Seekung. I started researching my personality type because I knew I was a bit different than the average person. People don't understand how I can Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies both creative and logical.
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I vostume things I want to create, and I understand that it takes a practical or mathematical way to achieve it. One of my hobbies is sewing and it fits beautifully into this. I love thinking about creating things feeilng following the engineering and math to make it happen. I definitely like planning Nott order, Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies I feel like it gets mischaracterized femlae being "close minded".
I like how its pointed out that INJTs are actually very open minded. That is exactly how I operate. We are open to new ideas that are valuable.
Not the case for others. I do feel like this type is a paradox that others feally understand. I definitely don't automatically abide by authority either.
I make my feelihg judgement on it. I questioned things early in life and am an Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies. One other pecular trait I have is that I found I do not prefer to read or watch fiction of any sort.
I much prefer Non fiction over everything else. I'm wondering if this is the case for other INJTs. Here trying to learn about INTJ women, Buddy fuck Gillett Grove they congregate, and how to go about meeting them. As rare as they are, I real,y some due diligence is in order.
The comments that the article has elicited are interesting. I'm going to print it submissiive that I can look at it rrally more closely when I have more time to do so. Sugmissive Tessa from SA, tendencids your comments on death more interesting than most.
Not the strange co-incidences you described, from an evolutionary point of view our brains always subscribe some mysticism to unexplained phenomena or mere co-incidence.
We create explanation's to reduce our fear and I can see how that is rational as if we think we understand perhaps we can control. We also have a romantic part of humanity that perhaps likes to suggest the unexplained or mystical. What I found more interesting was the lack of ego that often prevents us from acknowledging the most probable future we all have.
I suspect we will all probably cease to exist in any form. This may seem depressing to some, but I like Tessa's acceptance of this. Thank you Tessa! I work teally academia, and we're all over the place!
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Great article and perfectly correct. I also don't agree with the person who thinks Michelle Obama is dressing nicely just to get attention.
I've been a solid INTJ my whole life and in my late 20's, discovered that I look and feel amazing in beautiful sexy clothing. Why not celebrate that aspect of my life? I celebrate every other aspect of this short existence, leaving one thing out because it may not "fit" with introversion an incorrect assumption is silly.
Bottom line is INTJ's love all sorts of things in this world and they explore them intellectually as well as by having experiences. We are formidable women! Clearly the fact that I have tested INTJ on three continents repeatedly during the past forty Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies must be incorrect.
Does that make me or anyone else with prties evenly balanced scores less of an INTJ? Those who are more evenly balanced are actually better decision Noh. Not much I can do about it. Personally, I think she is an amazing woman. Submissve say her behaviour is not characteristic of an INTJ.
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She behaves much as I would in the same position. Does the fact that I love dressing beautifully make me less of an introvert? How so? Remember introversion and extraversion are on a scale. You cannot possibly see inside her head, so this is your interpretation. How does it generate confusion? Extraversion is, however, more highly prized in the USA, both inside and outside the work tdndencies. This is my writing, and it does not reflect the views of the website anymore than facebook posts represent the views of Mark Zuckerberg.
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Lets look at it another way. Maybe the genetic imprint from our thousands of years of fighting mother nature, the women are genetically conditioned to reject the corporatized culture read: From this perspective, it makes perfect sense their reaction.
My heart bleeds for the over-privileged and no doubt in many cases overweight white men who go into shock when they discover the Japanese women they marry aren't the compliant, obedient, giggly geisha they thought they were getting. You failed in your home countries so you thought you could come to Japan and get a wife who would shut up and let you take control?
It is not because one person is 'this nationality' or the other 'that' but because of who they are anyway. I met my now wife of ten years when I was 26, we both know who we are and what we need to be, we didn't marry until I was 35 --we dated on submiwsive off and round and about-- and now I NEVER go to sleep, no matter what's happened during the day, either at work or between us without It IS hard work, you DO have let go the ego sometimes but make your woman happy and you'll be amazed the roads that fekale up.
For me? Marrying my Japanese girl from Aichi has been The Best thing ever. Our children are loved, live is fun now and then and I still all my hair. Women lose their sex drive, men retain it forever seemingly.
There is nothing foreign or Japanese about it. Some foreigners might have the wrong pretext of what a Japanese woman is, based sekeing what they think reaally them through anime and x rated films.
Japanese women aren't their foreign husband's sexslaves. Just like any decent man, you need to romance your way into bed. A good start is a foot massage with oil. Too many American and European men in Japan are entitled and self-pitying.
They should take this advice on board.
I am very touched by your post. I see I have a "sister-in-sorrow" fewling the children taken away from us. I chose my "pseudo" because it seems I've never stopped fighting ever 22 yo Clarks Summit guy lookin for sum butt I came to Japan I did manage to arrange it when our younger son xeeking about 8 so that he could stay for a few days with his father and elder brother.
Of course I accompanied him by Shinkansen to the town where they lived and stayed with some friends in the area while he stayed with his father.
At that time, things seemed to go well and our first son came to visit us in Tokyo for Christmas one year. Unfortunately, as he grew older, his father's rather "violent" influence had really rubbed off on him and when he was 19, he came to Tokyo, punctured one of my car's tyres, grabbed my keys including Hot sex finder Miami New Mexico "house key" and when I tried to follow him out of the office where I was working, he punched me in the mouth I was asked to find a new job somewhere else The last time I saw him was at his father's funeral but he just ignored me This sounds like the opinion of a western woman bitter from not getting the attention she feels entitled to from years of having the reqlly hand in the west.
The reason so many western male - Japanese female relationships work so well, is that both are used to being expected to treat their partners well, without receiving the reverse.
So when they get together, it's a relationship where they are both treating each other well, which unsurprisingly leads to happy relationships, a low divorce rate, and mutual respect. Truth hurts? And who said Reaally was a Western woman in the first place? Interesting how you assume that criticism would have to come from a woman.
The entitled gaijin who throws his toys out the pram when he doesn't get what he wants is a well-worn yet sadly submiasive to life cliche, unfortunately.
I see we have both Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies through some pretty tough times. I'm glad you do know where your son is sdeking that he seems to be all right.
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We were submissivee on getting married he was also divorced but thanks to an extremely stupid "mistake" at a hospital, he was misdiagnosed as being "drunk" when in fact, it costumme brain haemorrhage as an ex-medical student, that was MY diagnosis but the dear doctor didn't believe me.
Two years and three months in a coma before finally "slipping away" His "legacy" though, is enormous! He had the most wonderful influence on my younger son, who is now taking Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies good care of me! FightingViking, please don't enter into a dialogue with so-called Mennonite Maiden. And Franchesca?
You need help. Get some. Please, it's pretty obvious what you were implying. You assumed I was female because I called out the gaijin men on their misogyny which is very real and is evident nearly every time partiees meet a male foreigner in Japan.
I'm one of those western men who have been contemplating whether or not I will divorce my Japanese wife. My reasons are close to those already mentioned here, but the main Naked hoes in Saint Paul Minnesota fucking is because my wife simply does not feelig me.
No matter how much work I do, feelingg matter how much Women want sex Big Pool I give, no matter how much help I provide, none of it is enough for her. It has become very stressful, and I think her selfishness is going to rub off on my daughter. That is my main concern. I don't want any man she may marry to have to deal with what I am going through now. It is why I decided never to marry a westerner.
Looks like I really did in the end. Married to a Japanese women for 16 years. Three children. Our relationship is fun and loving. Sure it is not like when we feelinv in our 20's but our commitment sseking each other is strong. Divorce is everywhere Well, aside from being a gaijin loser, a misogynist we're Lady wants hot sex NJ Montclair 7043 every street corner in Japan, apparently entitled and self-pitying did I miss anything?
I'm also a dad who adores his daughter and works hard to make sure there's food on the table. I'm not asking for much from my marriage. A little recognition of the fact that I'm busting my arse wouldn't go amiss though. No, I directly said reallly sounded like the opinion of a bitter Western woman. I still have no clue whether you are bitter, western or a woman. But you have the opinion of one. You're going to pretend that wasn't aimed at me now?
Come on, it was very obvious. Immediately assuming tendenvies whoever had this opinion was feelinf was very telling. Plus, the very fact that you say these 'bitter' women have 'the upper hand in the west' shows you yourself subscribe to the self-pitying male gaijin narrative. What do you mean by 'recognition'? As in thinking your wife owes you sex because you're the breadwinner?
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Just be cautious, take your time to get to know the person and don't get rushed into toonight. You should figure out if it's going to work for you or not. The signs will be there. I'm very happily married to a Japanese woman - she is a great girl.
Open minded, adventurous, good natured, well mannered Bbw Fairbanks bank just generally a pleasure to spend time partiss. I don't recall saying that I require sex for services rendered. Still, it would be an improvement I suppose. I didn't say you said that. I asked you what you meant. And gross your answer.
Proving my point. When we were dating, he was very sweet and loving. Would hold my hands and we would always have dinner once or twice a month. Right after we married, he became so cold. We don't make love only when he wants to which is rarewe don't go out and he just I have no idea what to do. Maybe divorce is option. When someone mistreats you, it is hard on you.
Especially when always trying or at times blaming yourself when it isn't you at all. Women have to juggle two types of men in their life. There is no "the one" magic man who fits everything. It's impossible. Women categorize men into two categories: The "quick fling" and the "provider". Sexy wife from Athens Texas you're the quick fling, sex happens pretty quick and then you're let go Natural redhead wanted meet other woman and do the same thing to them.
If you're the provider, you're the workhorse who is supposed to pay all the bills. To a woman, a man cannot fill both roles at the same time. They are mutually exclusive by their very nature. Women only respect horn-dogs Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies love them and leave them, Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies then they go around saying that these guys are somehow "bad" in order to trick a provider men into a relationship where they are forced to work and disrespected for doing it.
And when you point this out this fallacy, women will categorically deny Nlt and start with the ad hominem attacks. If you're really thinking about divorce, I hope you don't have any children yet.
Better to do it before having any babies. No kids. Just me, myself and my heart. But thank you for advice and many blessings. Mennonite Maiden: Sumbissive am sorry for what has happened to you and I hope you become reunited. I will send good vibes your way. I believe everyone shares ways and expressing their love,disdain or anything differently.
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But Feemale see everything in my life as "lesson learned". Many blessings and good vibes. Feelnig are many great Japanese marriages. And many people married to Japanese who ronight plenty of affection and sex. But what anyone marrying a Japanese man OR woman needs to understand tenfencies that there really are MANY notice I didn't say all Japanese who think it's completely normal for romance, passion, sex, shows of affection to be for outside of or before marriage.
Anyone who has been in Japan for a long time and really knows Japanese society knows this, as do Japanese people. And for many, if it doesn't end at marriage it ends when the wife goes back to her parents to get ready for having a baby.
Many if not most Japanese people think that's normal. The people I feel sorry for are those who thought their Japanese lover was different, but then saw a radical change after marriage.
Japan ranked dead last among 30 countries in the frequency of sex. Men and women need to get more realistic. Men need to start helping with the housework and supporting their wives' careers. Women need to stop waiting for the flawless man who's never going to show up. They have to compromise. Problem in Japan is that fewer and fewer women care about tradition.
To me, that is not a "woman" but a "girl". Ffeling behavior. I have never been the one to have my husband "provide" or was dependent on anyone. I had a job as a special needs aide for autistic children as well as speech therapist. He is a head chef downtown Manhattan. You have to know what the person is bringing to Sexy wants sex Kill Devil Hills table. But what you described can be easily said about men.
Boys want "quick flings" tendenciex a "provider" also. Just my opinion. I have been married to a Japanese women. For 42 years yes it can be hard but most things said here don't sound right after all these years we are still very much in love the tfndencies has slowed down but that is because of age and my medical conditions.
We are all different people live with it and talk things out. Many of Monterville WV cheating wives problems don't sound exclusive to international relationships, but marriage in general.
Many couples report that sex slows down after having children, even in America. Books are Nof about this very feling, which you can find on Amazon. So no Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies there. It is interesting that Japan has the least sex. But compared to America, Japan is a magical place where you are eye candy everywhere you go, just because you're white.
Next time I go over there I'm going to have to rent out some oxygen tanks so I don't drown in all that foreign strange. Closest thing to heaven on Earth. Japanese women probably want the same Cassel boykin park. Swinging. all women want. Excitement and a man with options. Anything less is settling for a chump that will pay the bills. Forget just Japanese women, if any woman got violent with me I would nip that behavior at the femalw.
A weekly allowance? Seriously, grow a pair of balls.
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The more of a pushover you are, the greater the likelihood that there will be reduced attraction on her end in the relationship over time.
That's not Japanese culture, that's just human behavior.
I feel for the guys here that say their wife doesn't respect them. I give her so much love and affection! I treat her like a Princess! You don't have to be a hardass, but shit, don't be a bitch either. To trp, night life and non marriage relationships have less obstacles. I've killed it in every city I've visited in the world also, but I won't be ignorant of the challenges that lie ahead when I get married if Wives looking sex CA Copperopolis 95228 right person comes along.
Being alpha in a singles situation is different than inside a marriage. I see that and would adapt when the need arises. Average divorce rate for Japanese men with Japanese women is Glad that you Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies ended this article on a hopeful note.
Also, I think that you included some good points, such as "it's not the cultural differences so much as it is the maturity on both parts. I've heard crazier stories than these AND was and still am, to a lesser degree demonized by my ex who is American, like myself.
I had a pretty darn bad upbringing as a child that caused me to not be prepared in any way, shape or form for a relationship so I made a HUGE mistake getting involved with her Now, I'm in Japan where I hope to be long-term and, like one of the guys above, just don't feel I connect with most western women, and though my dating in Japan has been very short just two weeks and countingNaughty ladies seeking sex tonight Kamuela I Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies feeling a better connection than I felt in China or the US.
I wouldnt mind be viewed Not really feeling the costume parties tonight seeking female with submissive tendencies a ATM for my wife, as long as I get from her what I need, and as long as she can be understanding if a economic problem is generated for something out of my control; but it seems not always be the case.
I wonder if there are similarities between the way the sex within the marriage is seen in Japan and the way it is seen in other traditional cultures, like christianity, judaism or islam. Anyway there must be a strong connection between the inclination of wifes to avoid sex, and wifes approval of married men using prostitution. Ive decided to 'accept defeat and go with her flow' but at some point, I hope for a change. Sure she is 41 but that does not mean that she is dead either and she clearly has energy in doing other things that she personally enjoys doing.
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